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It's So Fun to Kinda Flirt with My Crush PA

· 2 min read

Ever had that special PA who makes your heart do somersaults every time you catch a glimpse of them? Yeah, that’s me. I’m in the “I‑love‑your‑laugh‑but‑I‑don’t‑want‑to‑crush‑our‑friendship” phase, and I’m here to share my tiny saga.

The Setup
I’m hanging out with my favorite PA (yes, you can read that as “personal assistant,” no, it’s not a typo) and we’re constantly teasing, joking, and flirting whenever we can. They’re so freaking attractive and hilarious that my brain is basically a confetti cannon of “yes, that’s the one.”

The Twist
We’ve become friends too—like, officially friends. We share memes, talk about life, and sometimes even plan out how to get that PA’s attention without actually showing that I’m a crush (because nobody likes a “friend‑zone” heartbreak). But deep down, I low‑key want more than just coffee dates and witty banter. I want to turn those “just friends” emojis into something else.

The Reality Check
Every time we’re together, I’m stuck in a loop of “Do I say ‘hi’ or ‘hey’?” and “Should I compliment their haircut or their sense of humor?” Meanwhile, my brain keeps telling me, “You can’t do this—keep it casual.” My brain’s a drama queen, so it shows up in every conversation, making me feel like I’m starring in a rom‑com I didn’t sign up for.

The Moral of the Story
You can’t keep a crush under wraps forever. One day it’s going to either turn into a full‑blown romance or a hilarious “I can’t believe I fell for a PA.” Either way, it’s a story worth telling (and laughing at).

TL;DR​

I’ve got a crush on a PA. I flirt, tease, and try to keep it casual, but my brain is a drama‑queen. The outcome? Either romance or a laugh‑out‑of‑control friendship saga. Either way, I’m all in for the ride.